You can do so much more in and with your life if you stop thinking so darn much.
I know why you do it (because I know why I do it). I don’t want to make a mistake. I’m afraid to rise to the occasion of a new level. I worry what other people will think or say behind my back. When I cannot see the entire way I think I’m not ready to take the first steps.
Here’s what I have learned (the hard way).
You will make mistakes no matter how much you prepare. Take a deep breath and jump… you *will* learn to swim. You aren’t an anchor.
Being uncomfortable is a prerequisite to growing. There is no way around this. Embrace the suck (that’s what she said) and realize the yuckiness is growing you – stop fighting against it and learn to love it.
Shitheads with nothing going on *will* talk about you no matter how much you bend over backwards for them. Ballers are too busy being ballers to be thinking about you. Be like the ballers, leave the buttheads to their low vibe messiness while you transcend. Never met a butthead I wanted to be like EVER.
If the path was clear, everyone would take it. And how boring would that be! Consider it a grand adventure instead of a boogieman. Find YOUR way.
You aren’t designed to be ordinary. Stop acting like it. Let’s go have some  fun baby, I love you and you deserve this!!
xoxo ,
Monie Thots
The one written when I had hypothermia in June in AZ

2 Comments

  • Ben says:

    Wow, this blog post describes how I’ve been living the last few months, but more beautifully written than I probably could relay it.. It’s good to see who potentially will be my real estate agent thinks along the same lines. I read the post to my wife over the phone today. This post was a reminder that I shouldn’t doubt myself today. Thanks, Monie. Have a great weekend!

  • Monie says:

    Thanks Ben, I am so glad it resonated with you!

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